Jesus and the Narcissist
Describe Jesus. Now describe the narcissist. It doesn’t appear that the two are likely to ever commingle. But what if love wins? Love of GOD moves one to forgive the narcissist without apology.
So, fellow patriot, you are hereby forgiven!!
Chuck DeGroat writes in When Narcissism Comes to Church, “A descriptor like ‘narcissist’ names the persona, the mask, a part of someone, but like the descriptors (doctor, father, diabetic, etc.) it does not account for our core ‘true self’ hidden with Christ in God.”
A narcissist can be hidden in Christ, can be accepted by Christ? Yes!
The term narcissist derives from Narcissus which comes from the Greek narc meaning, “numbness.” Narcissists are numb to their own pain and the pain they inflict. However, people who have experienced the pain of narcissism will describe how painful it is to be made to feel like one is crazy, wrong, insecure, and confused; it leaves a “relational debris field” (DeGroat).
Narcissists cannot bear their own “limitations of humanity.” Because of this inability, narcissists often manifest in a form of control by means of shaming and blaming sometimes right in your face (overtly) and sometimes right under the radar (covertly). They exhibit characteristics of grandiosity, entitlement, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for those who are in their thralls. But to the outside world, they appear talented, charismatic, charming, confident, with strong leadership, and devoted to God (some might even say “on fire” for God). These traits to the outsider often appear as strengths, yet this Jekyll and Hyde persona can make the sanest of people feel insane.
As hard as it is to have compassion for someone hurting another, let us note that a narcissist was not born a narcissist; he or she was made, usually through trauma. It is a learned behavior. Narcissists are often unaware of their own motivations for what they are doing. The behaviors such as attention seeking, need for approval, lack of empathy, sense of entitlement, and lack of intimacy are often beneath the conscience awareness of the narcissist. The more elevated someone is, the more pronounced the narcissistic behavior may be, leading to potential issues in relationships, work, and other aspects of life.” So, does that excuse their behavior? Absolutely not! However, this information may provide you a different look into the behavior, and provide you even confirmation of what you’re experiencing.
For people encountering a narcissist’s snare, know this one truth: it’s not you! You are not crazy, you are not shameful, you are not worthless! You are a valuable child of God, “A royal priesthood belonging to God” (1 Peter 2:9). Now, while this is true for you, it is also true for the narcissist (hard to swallow, I know). Jesus’s love, forgiveness, mercy, AND truth do not discriminate. It is for all (John 3:16). 1 Peter 3:18 states, “Christ suffered and died for sins once and for all the innocent for the guilty-to bring you near to God…” All of us has sinned and need God’s mercy (Romans 3:23). I am just as much of a sinner as the narcissist. The difference is my sin may not impact, cripple, or hurt as much as a narcissist’s sin, but my sin needs God’s forgiveness just the same.
It is true to that God’s love covers even the narcissist’s sin, but it does not mean his or her behavior is excused. It does not mean that you have to tolerate it. If you are part of a narcissist’s web, whether at home, work, church, etc., know that you can set boundaries with him or her, you can ask for help, and, if necessary, you can walk away.
SO IN THE END YOU ARE FORGIVEN LC AS OF TODAY 17JUL2023
COOK ST GEORGE UTAH RECIPES
Narcissist Main Ingredients
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BE PREPARED WITH THE FOLLOWING INGREDIENTS
USE RELIGIOUS POSITION IN COMMUNITY TO DECEIVE LOVER
HIDE LIES, AND SECRETS
Luke 8:17 – For all that is secret will eventually be brought into the open, and EVERYTHING that is concealed will be brought to light and made known to all.
Luke 16:10
Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.
INGREDIENT – CRYING
They cry after making love (becomes conflicted emotionally when guilty of deception and betrayal by working to bed an ex-lover), stop praying with you at dinner, shuns holding hands in prayer. They become secretive and violate trust, and lie in GOD’s name. Imagine the crying deception while claiming “I can’t seem to balance my devotion to the God I love, focusing on my aims, and my determination to self-rule, with my affection for, and pleasure in being with you. I am pulled in too many directions and everything suffers.”
The truth can be published worldwide! A NARCISSIST NEVER APOLOGIZES//
Deception Ingredients
Add this ingredient while deceiving your current partner with another lover.
Don’t forget to tell them “Jesus Reigns.” Narcissists need constant change, drama, and movement.
A NARCISSIST from the mountains Preaching God and Jesus, who ALL have infinite respect for. They crush the spirit by DECEPTION and then mix in the emotional abuse.
COOK RECIPE ingredient FOR perspective…….
Luke 8:17 – For all that is secret will eventually be brought into the open, and everything that is concealed will be brought to light and made known to all.
The Narcissistic Cook Recipes For Relationships
THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE
INGREDIENTS
ADD SLOWLY LIFE’S LESSONS
ALWAYS, HONESTY BEFORE DECEPTION
Treat people as Jesus would right???? Remember and continue to the next ingredient.
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UNDERSTANDING THE RECIPE EXPERIENCE
STIR AND AGITATE THE FOLLOWING
WHY INGREDIENT 1 – Why do some people who have gained your love and trust ghost you after they know they have finally won your heart?
Why INGREDIENT 2 – Why do they cause harm with a lack of respect, ghosting, head games, and passive-aggressive emotional abuse? Cheat on you, deliberately ruin the Holidays to inflict deep emotional pain, and cause you to become who you are not? Someone, you thought you could never become?
WHY INGREDIENT 3 – Why do lies become more important as they crush the spirit?
Why INGREDIENT 4 – Why do people find delight in changing the emotional state of a happy, kind person, filled with the spirit of light and love? Only to break them down piece by piece, perfectly timed to inflict the most pain? Deliberate behavior timed perfectly, emotionally pushing them into a state of depression to humiliate them?
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COOK SLOWLY AND CAREFULLY UNTIL EMOTIONS BOIL
Failing to see the signs of betrayal – must repeat ingredients to fully understand the recipe
Now, this ingredient is a delicate one to understand its use!! In reality, they are setting up the deception and betrayal to divert from the truth of being a cheater and a liar in God’s name!
All of this while adding the ingredient “From my perspective, it’s apparent I make you doubt your prowess, which has NEVER been in question in my mind: You are strong and smart and sexy, and a perfect lover.”
You doubt the reality because you sense the betrayal while they use GOD, JESUS, and your heart to keep the recipe CONVOLUTED.
USING IN GOD’S NAME TO HIDE DECEPTION AND UNFAITHFULNESS COMMITTED AGAINST ANOTHER.
COOK ST GEORGE UTAH INGREDIENTS
Being diminished Ingredient
Diminished as a valuable spirit, your opinion, and disconnected in the relationship over time with slow, manipulative actions, deceptions, and disregard.
THE REAL INGREDIENT OF DECEPTION
Weakness and failure to discover
Maybe the cause of failing to discover these characteristics in others is, your hope that you will not burn the recipe as in past experiences. You want to trust and benefit from the doubt that the person’s ingredient is true to you. You discover in reflection, the deceptions were earlier in the relationship than you thought. They are still making love ingredients for you while deceiving as well with a promise and a prayer. Pursuing from EAST TO WEST, and in between. Imagine this ingredient as this deception was employed. Only a true Narcissist could do this. Remember that a Narcissist participates in risky behavior and needs random acts of sudden change.
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STIR SLOWLY AT A COOL TEMPERATURE
Timing
This seems to occur around the 1-year stage, the individual begins to sabotage the ingredients of a happy relationship through actions and secrecy they THINK will give them power over you.
They want to be in charge on a higher pedestal. They will claim justification by saying they get in their way!! Assert in boldness, “THEY ARE THE DECISION MAKER” and there are no partnership decisions, harsh but true, and very hurtful to one’s self-worth. A RECIPE FOR DISASTER!!
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HOW TO DETERMINE IF THE RECIPE IS READY
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THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE
No matter what, it was always you, this manipulation helps them maintain power over you in their preservation of self-perfection. Devoid of conscience!
The answer is PROVEN by the consistency of their sins because in their hearts they consider themselves above reproach AS they sacrifice others to preserve their self-image of perfection. They believe their perch is always higher than yours and they self-preserve their opinion of self by hurting others emotionally and in any other way, they are devoid of conscience.
One might now consider that a leader spiritually is truly evil when one claims to be holy and care not what pain you feel, they are only into the self-preservation of perfected self-image. In reality, Nothing Else Matters, therefore, goes the silence, the deception, the untold truths of intentions.
ALL SHARED IS THE TRUTH CONCERNING INTELLIGENCE, GLOBAL CORRUPTION, AND CRIMES AGAINST HUMANITY.
To Whom it may concern, UNLIKE YOUR DISCLOSURES AND LACK THEREOF
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SPECIAL
Luke 16:10
Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.
